Men and women hear and
interpret words differently. We view things in different ways which is always
the cause of arguments in relationships. The more intimate you are with your
partner, the more prone you are to arguments. In this write up I will be
showing you how to reduce argument to its minimal level or elimininate it
completely.
Women like their
feelings to be validated i.e they want you to see the reason why they are
angry. Your woman doesn’t need your
explanation why you “fuck up”. Giving explanation no matter how logical it
might be will only make her angrier. It makes her look stupid for being angry. Why
not keep the explanation till the atmosphere is calm. You will do best as a man
by listening to her frustration without taking it personal. Men are prone to
take things personal when their women are complaining. They do interpret it as
if their women are accusing them of being incompetent and irresponsible. You
will do well if you don’t take her words personal but rather validate her
feelings.
One of the best ways
you can validate her feelings is by saying “I am sorry for hurting you”. But this
has to be said with remorse and regret. She really wants to see that you are
really sorry. Don’t just say it casually. This word means a lot to women. Don’t
be too big for such word. Don’t say it’s a taboo in your family to say such
word to a woman.. Swallow your pride and look into her eyes with love and say
this powerful word. To women, “I am sorry” means you care; and you cherish her. You will
easily dissipate her anger by following this principle. Your relationship will
not be war-like but heaven-like. You will then grow in intimacy and love. I look
forward to hearing from you.
#YourLOVECOACH
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