Women also experience mood
swing at times. This is the time they’re annoyed, angry and unloved. They can
even talk disrespectfully during this period. Men need not to be angry. When this
happens, you need to understand your woman has hit the bottom of her wave-like
emotion. What she needs from you is love, support and understanding. At this time she needs your care and intimacy the most. Unfortunately, most of the
time, this is when men distant themselves. It should not be so.
Understand that your
woman needs to cool off and feel loved again by talking out her feelings, pains
and frustrations. This might be a result of stress from work or home. It’s
not always easy for a woman to come from work, enter the kitchen to cook. And simultaneously
be looking after the children especially when they are little. This can make
her quickly hit the bottom of her emotion. That’s why it is good for a man to
help out with some house chores. As your wife is cooking, you’re looking after
the children; not just crossing your leg and be watching champion league. I hope
wonderful men reading this piece will take this to heart.
At times the fault
might not be from you. Your wife may be stressed because of work. So, you don’t
need to feel responsible for this. What she needs from you during this period
is rapt attention, listening ear and caring attitude. She will definitely open
up if you show you care. Listen without trying to ‘fix’ her problems. Listen
with rapt attention without any distraction. She may even feel worse but be patient.
Allow her to talk out her feelings because that’s the only way she can feel
better. Learn to say, “Hmm”, “okay”, “seriously”, “Really!” when listening to
her. This will prompt her to keep talking thereby making her feel loved and
understood . If you can do this consistently, your relationship will be full of
love and quarrel free.
#YOURLOVECOACH.
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