YOU DON'T GROW BY AGE

   Age and degree alone can never bring maturity; it's insight from God's word that brings maturity. One part of the bible says "desire the sincere milk of God's word that ye may grow". The reason we have many broken homes and relationships is because some people are not growing. They think age, degree or money only confers growth. Absolutely NO! It's your level of insight on the word of God. It's possible to have understanding than the ancients if only you make God's word your meditation. Any relationship can be restored and become heaven on earth if both partners can grow up by insight on the word God.

No matter the number of your degrees or the amount money in your account, you're still a baby if you are not full of the word.

   Even the Holy Book says "man shall not live by bread alone but by every word of God". The question is; how are you living? Is it by food only? We have many people living by food only thereby having  dead relationships,  businesses. No life in their marriages or courtships. The wine of their relationships has become stale. There's no book that can teach you how to love your spouse, children or people passionately and unconditionally except the word of God. Have you forgotten this? Guard your heart above all else, because out of it are the issues (happenings, events) of life. All the events of your life comes from your heart. Destructive marriage or courtship comes from heart. Don't blame the devil.  Protect your heart by the word of God. As you change the software or program of your heart, the hardware of your life will also change. You want change in your marriage, courtship or dating relationship, grow up by insight from the word. Don't be too busy for the word of God. Find time for the word no matter what. One hour with the word can save you from regret in your marriage.

   You can't be faithful in that relationship without the word of God. How will someone study the book of proverb and still be running after sugar mummy or daddy or slay queens.  If someone still does that, he/she lacks understanding of the word. You will find in one part of the book of wisdom written by one of the greatest kings ever lived that "delight in the wife of your youth, let her breasts satisfy you always". Remember, you don't grow by age or degree, but by the word of God.

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DO YOU LOVE AFRICA?

   The holy book says "pray for the peace of Jerusalem; they shall prosper that love thee. Peace be within thy walls; and prosperity within thy palaces. For my brethren and companions' sakes,  I will now say, peace be within thee. Because of the house of the LORD our God I will seek thy good." This was written by one of the greatest musicians and instrumentalists of the old testament. Whether we like it or not, our Jerusalem is Nigeria and Africa as a whole. We have to consistently be praying for the peace of Nigeria and Africa.
   People say, Africans are poor and many Nigerians live below $1 per day. The question is; do you love this country? Nobody can prosper in a country he/she hates because the wealth secret of that country will not be revealed unto him. One of the grrates lover of Africa is ALIKO DANGOTE. I know you're familiar that name. Some Nigeria musicians even used the name to sing that "I want to be rich like Dangote". He made one profound statement that "if he's given all the money in the world, he will invest it in Africa". You shouldn't be surprised why he's the richest in Africa.  He even encourages other Africans in abroad to come and invest in this continent.  The question is; "if you have all the money in the world, will you invest it in Africa?" Judge yourself.
Everybody hates our bad leadership, snail-like economy, poverty caused by not working together in love. We must not hate Africa if we want to prosper in it. We can't but love this continent. At least, for the sake of our brothers, sisters, wives, children, the next generation and even our religion, let's love our countries and Africa as a whole. Remember, the goodness of your country  will rub on you. Also, the worse of your country will rub on you. Nigerians can testify how they are being treated at International Airports because of bad image. Let's work together to redeem the glory of Africa. Let's put aside the belief that Africa was sold to the devil by our forefathers through idol worshipping. But my argument is, we should be free by now because we're the most religious continent in the world. And Christianity is more than other religions in Africa. You can testify with me that the blood of Jesus is more powerful than the power of the devil. Do you agree that devil is not our problem? We are just under the umbrella of hatred which is hindering the prosperity of Africa. If we're working together in love and looking for the good of our countries,  we'll be better of. There'll be enabling environments for innovations,  inventions and economy growth.
This trait of love is seen among the whites. I think many of them love their countries passionately. I'm not surprised they are setting the pace in technology , innovations and economy.  Until we love our countries,  there will be no development. Let's join our hands together to move Africa to greater heights. Remember,  united will stand, divided will fall. Africans, let's arise and shine together. Happy Democracy Day to my fellow Nigerians.
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FORGIVERS ARE GREAT LOVERS

   In the Holy Book, we're told Christ gave Himself for the church to make them holy, blameless and faultless. He does this by forgiving us our sins (or shortcomings) even in advance. As believers in Christ Jesus, our future sins are already forgiven, that is why we're called saints or holy people. Likewise,  husbands ought to give themselves for their own wives, making her blameless,  faultless,  spotless and glorious. This is possible by forgiving your spouse in advance including those wrongs which are yet to be committed. By this, you will have a glorious wife and relationship. Your woman will not be seen as a problem and your relationship will be heaven on earth.

   Also, you can make others blameless, spotless and faultless by forgiving them in advance for any wrong. It offers that before he/she commits any wrong, your forgiveness is already waiting. Your forgiveness swallow up her wrongs. This is how our heavanly Father acts towards believers. He doesn't count our faults against us. His forgiveness (mercy, lovingkindness) swallows up our iniquities (or shortcomings). That is why we're always blameless, faultless and spotless before Him. 

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