ZEALOUS TO KNOW WHAT GIVES VALUE TO YOUR GIFTS IN RELATIONSHIPS? READ THIS. .....

   Eph. 4:29 (TM) says, "watch the way you talk. Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth. Say only what helps, EACH WORD A GIFT. It's high time we know that right words are more valuable than gifts of money and all other earthly gifts.  Gifts can't replace kind words in a relationship.  Men and women should try to understand this.  Without kind words,  your gifts are valueless and worthless.

   Some people think they can use gifts to bribe their partners after raining words of abuse on them. Nobody needs your gift after badmouthing them. Gifts become more valuable with kind words. Let's quickly go through the pages of scripture for the story of Jacob and Esau. Jacob sent gifts to Esau his brother to pacify him of cheating him of his birthright. You know that Esau had sworn to kill him. The gifts were nothing to Esau; he might have seen them as a bribe or way of deceptively robbing him. The gifts might even intensify the pain of losing his birthright thereby making him angrier.  

   However,  the moment Esau heard the humble voice of Jacob seeking for his forgiveness by the way he spoke and prostrated seven times before he met him, his anger was pacified;  his heart melted.  He had compassion upon his brother. Thereby bringing about the fulfillment of this scripture, "A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger". His gifts couldn't have pacified Esau.   

   Kind words work more wonders than gifts. They give  weight and value to any gift you give out to your partner or people.  Remember,  they are not beggars. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Love you so much.

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RELATIONSHIP SECRETS RELATIONSHIP EXPERTS DON'T WANT PUBLISHED....... REVEALED!

   The Holy Book says, "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb,  sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. The right words are better than gifts of money and all earthly gifts.  Kind words cheer people up;  and bring out the  best in them.
   In your relationship especially marriage use kind and helpful words. Wife, don't use harsh or abusive words on your husband. Husband, don't threaten or curse your wife. Words can cause war and can also bring peace into a relationship. Wrong usage of words has scattered many homes and relationships. A husband or wife can fall sick because of harsh/abusive words of their partner. As word can bring sweetness to the soul, it can also bring sorrow and pain. Many people have bitterness in their hearts because of bad words of their partners or loved ones. Some people have vowed not to forgive others because of the degree of pain their words caused them.
   Be skillful in the usage of your words especially in your relationship. When you've misunderstanding,  learn to still use kind words. Kind words can turn away wrath quickly and even put an end to quarrel.  Briddle your tongue when you're angry. Don't open your mouth like tap water and start raining abuses or curses on your partner. Don't say words you'll later regret. Words can lift up and can also bring down. Don't destroy your spouse or children by your words.  Some children's futures have been destroyed by the words of their parents especially their mothers. Cultivate the habit of speaking helpful words to your children no matter what they do. There're different kind of health challenges bad words can cause. For example,  mental sickness (dull child), financial sickness (poverty), physical sickness (sickness in the body like frequent fever, pain or headache), loss of self-esteem (lacking self-confidence to take hold of the future) etc.
   Since words come from our heart, they reveal who we are. We can't hide our true nature, our words will betray us. Remember,  you can't speak rightly until you're filled with right words. Therefore, fill your heart with right and helpful words like God's words and other motivational words; for out of that abundance you'll speak words that heal, lift up, encourage, bless and comfort others.

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THE ULTIMATE SECRET OF GETTING ALMOST ANYONE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

   Herein is LOVE, not that we loved God, but that He loved us, and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. This kind of love is shown to unlovable, difficult people; the set of people who will not reciprocate your kind gesture. Love is not waiting for others to care for you first, it's being proactive in your action of love. It's acting without expecting anything in return. When love is attached to what I can get, it's not love anymore, it's selfishness.
   The God  kind of love we're talking about is selfless; it's for 100% good of others because everything God did was for our benefits. Love is not love unless it's selfless. Be generous in your giving to others.  Also, be generous in your giving to God without expecting more blessing. If we give to God in order to bless us more, that is called bribery or selfishness, that is not love. Remember, God has already blessed us with everything we will ever need for life and godliness, so we don't need to bribe him.
   Don't give for the purpose of getting something in return; if we do, we won't be different from the politicians.  Give with generous heart.  Give passionately and selflessly because that is the major way of showing love to others. Show selfless love to your spouse,  strangers , siblings, workers etc. It's the major way of making this world a better place to be.

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YOU WANT TO KNOW THE KIND OF WOMAN TO AVOID? READ THIS....

   

  

   A delilah kind of woman is a woman who uses the secrets of her husband against him. She divulges her husband's secrets to the enemy. She always look for the downfall of her husband. She values the bribe of her husband's enemy more than the love of marriage.  She will do everything possible to vex her husband to death just to reveal his secret. She values money more than love. She only loves the might, power or position of her husband. This kind of woman can reduce a giant to a morsel of bread. 

   Samson, the great, mighty man of valour, a man of war, was reduced to the level of entertaining his enemy after his eyes were plucked out. The question is; was this woman present when all these things happened? Delilah kind of woman is heartless and wicked. This kind of woman is greedy for material gain. She can  betray her family for wealth. 

   When you see a woman revealing your secrets to friends,  family or strangers, flee from such. Don't allow this woman to destroy your destiny.  FLEE from Delilah kind of woman.  Your life is at stake. May you not end your life like Samson.

STOP! "DO YOU KNOW THE MEANING OF A CHURCH?"

   According to Matt. 16:18, Jesus said, "........ I will build my church , and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." The church here means assembly or congregation of the saints ........ but Ephesians 2: 21-22 (NIV) opened our eyes how Christ will carry out the building, it says ........ "In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord ............ And in Him you too are being built together to become a dwelling.......... in which God lives by His Spirit."
   Christ carries out the building project of the saints by building us together ............. to form an edifice of a whole building since each of us is a temple. Christ puts many temples of the saints together to form one building.             Therefore,  we can now become too strong for the devil ......... then the gates of hell shall never prevail against the church.
The cement for this building is LOVE. When the saints of God are cemented together by LOVE .......... we shall be too strong for the gates of hell. Until we're joined together by LOVE ....... we'll  still be preys to the devil.

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WARNING: DON'T READ THIS UNLESS YOU WANT A BETTER RELATIONSHIP!

 

   Little things matter a lot in life and relationships. Maybe that is why the Holy Book says, "As dead flies cause even a bottle of perfume to stink, so a little foolishness spoils great wisdom and honour. If your partner is complaining of a perticular behaviour of yours, learn to take to correction. Don't despise it. Work hard to stop the act because little things repeatedly done become great things. If you don't listen and continue in the act, it might lead to break up when your partner can't take it anymore. At that time, it will be too late to make an ammendment.  This particular conduct might look nothing to you but it's a big problem to your partner. 
   Some people are yet to fathom the reason their partners break up with them. They might even be in a good term a day before the break up. The reason might be, you have frustrated your partner with your bad conduct. Like I said earlier, this conduct may be nothing to you but it's a big concern to your partner.
   There's nobody that is perfect and flawless. But there are some conducts we can tolerate while there are some we can't endure at all. These conducts can even be suffocating to us. We commonly complain of such conducts. Just stop any act your partner always complain of. Don't overlook it. Overlooking such small thing has made some women to be single mothers.  Despising this small act has broken many marriages and relationships. 
   Don't get to a point in your relationship your partner mean nothing to you. Don't lash out your tongues against him/her. No matter the degree of intimacy, respect your partner; honour him/her and you will have heaven on earth relationship.  LOVECOACH.

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