MARRIAGE DOES NOT MAKE YOU A WIFE

   He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains FAVOUR from the Lord. It means you're a wife before marriage. Marriage does not make woman a wife; it's her readiness, attitude,  spirituality , ability to manage her home (her husband and children). The scripture didn't say "He who finds a girlfriend or finacee". It offers that it's biblical to call the person you're dating your wife except she is truly a wife. Age, degree, achievements, wealth,  career exploits only cannot make a woman a wife. The question is, does she have the capacity to better your life? Since you have been dating,  has your life improved? Is she a gold digger or a gold maker? Will she respect you like the way Sarah respected Abraham? 
   You have to sit down to analyse the kind of lady you are dating if she is truly a wife. A woman, who is a wife, carries the favour a man needs to better his life.  Does she have the following qualities:
- modesty in her dress (not dressing like a harlot or "omo wobe")
- holy in her conduct (not cheating on you)
- truthful in speech and motives (not deceitful and cunny)
- gentle and quiet (not disrespectful, hostile,  aggressive)
- care for the home (excellent home manager)
- seeking to serve others (ready to help others in need)
- seeking to be trustworthy
- seeking to be prudent in financial matters
- seeking to be hard worker (not lazy)
- seeking to do the right thing and have a good reputation
- seeking to internalise biblical wisdom
- seeking to live out the secrets of womanhood.
 
   If you have found this kind of woman, you've found a wife. Please, don't lose her to any other guy. Find all means to marry her because she will make you achieve great things in a short time . Have a glorious marriage. #LOVE COACH.

SALARY CANNOT SUSTAIN YOUR OWN HOUSE

 
 

 
   Salary is a trap of destiny. It has made many people poor. Nothing escalates poverty like salary.  How will someone be spending daily but receiving an income once in a month? Is that not an easy pathway to poverty? I can't but mention the story of Jacob and Laban in the bible. Jacob served Laban for 14 years and wanted to go. But Laban said, " please STAY, if I have found favour in your eyes for I have learned by experience that the Lord has BLESSED me for YOUR SAKE." Then he said, "Name me your wages (salaries), and I will give it."
   Most employers don't realise they have a growing enterprise because of their workers. If you're a salary earner, please, don't serve your boss forever. Have a set time to leave to start your own business. Have a goal. Don't stay but run if your employer wants to increase your salary like what Laban did to Jacob. Rather, if you want to stay, be smart like Jacob who requested to be a shareholder of the company. Jacob said, "You shall not give me anything.  If you will do this thing for me, I will again feed and keep your flocks: let me pass through all your flocks today." Propose to your boss to be a shareholder rather than a salary earner. Tell him/her to pay you by shares if he/she wants you to stay. Remember what Jacob said, "And now, when shall I also provide for my own house?"
   I am putting the same question to you. When will you also provide for your own house? Selah. #Love Coach.

LOVE CAN REDUCE YEARS TO DAYS

   How time flies is the language of the person who is in love. You don't get tired of spending time with the person you love. 24hrs with your lover seems like a minute. 2 years with the person you love appears like days. 1000 years with your lover will be like a day. This is what Jacob experienced in the land of Haran when He worked for 14years to have Rachel. The first 7 years for Leah and the second 7 years for Rachel. The Holy Book says, "So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed only a few days to him because of the LOVE he had for her."
   Love can make someone do some crazy stuffs. Love can make you do some funny things you'll never do on a normal day. How will someone worked for 14 years (5 110 days) just to have a lady? Think of it! It looks crazy to you; but it's fun to Jacob. He was just enjoying himself. The Holy Book recorded that He saw it as few days; not even few weeks or months. I don't blame the guy when he loved Rachel more than Leah.
   Love could suspend your right senses to make you do some crazy stuffs for your lover. Until you reach that peak of love, you're yet to be in love. Everyone of us can testify to that. I know you can still remember the days of extracool; some people would be on phone with their lovers from 12:00 am to 4:00am. Doing  vigil? Lol. Even the time seems little; it's  never enough. Some of these people will find church all night or overnight reading difficult to do. They will sleep off because it'll seem like eternity.
   I agree with Albert Einstein that "Time is relative." It all depends on what you're doing with it. Remember,  no matter how busy you are, you will always create time for the things or someone you love. #Love Coach. #Iteach. #Iwrite.  #Ispeak. #Icounsel. #Relationshipbetterment. #Lovemotivator. #Marriagecounsellor.