WHY 99% OF RELATIONSHIPS FAIL MISERABLY --- AND HOW TO BE IN THE TOP 1%

  When a woman is upset, overwhelmed, confused,  exhausted, or hopeless what she needs most is companionship. She needs to feel she's not alone.  She needs to feel loved and cherished. Empathy, understanding, validation and compassion go a long way in assisting her to becoming more receptive and appreciative of your support as a man.  Men don't realise this,  because their instincts tell them to be alone when they are upset. When she is upset,  out of respect,  he leaves her alone and if he stays he makes matter worse by trying to solve her problems. He doesn't instinctively realise how important closeness,  intimacy,  and sharing are to her. What she needs most is someone to listen to her frustrations and pains.
   Men, pay attention to this secret:  women are soft-hearted to their lovers no matter the level of misunderstanding. Don't mind whatever she says in annoyance, she is only crying for intimacy, empathy and understanding.  She's crying for more love from you.  Reach out to her during this period. Don't be annoyed by her hurtful/abusive words.  Rather,  embrace and kiss her. Affirm your love for her. Be patient enough to see beyond her words. Treat her like a baby crying for food. Ladies feel more loved and appreciated when they are not left alone in their pains.
   Don't be discouraged by her hurtful words. It's just a means of relieving  herself of pains.  Be more understanding. If you do this,  you'll continously win her heart. Your relationship will skyrocket to the next level of intimacy, love and companion. There'll be openness,  sincerity and honesty.  You will be among the 1% with heaven on earth relationship. I hope you will take to this advice. 
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HOW AN UGLY FARMER WINS THE HEART OF A BEAUTIFUL NURSE.

   Love increases with closeness because closeness can trigger feelings. There's high probability for feelings of love to be ignited if there is closeness.  Let's quickly look up the word "close" in Oxford Dictionary. It means knowing somebody very well and liking them very much. It offers that it's difficult to have a deep love for somebody you don't know very well. The more knowledge you have of somebody, the more love or hatred you can have. Thas why it's not good to judge a book by its cover.  Don't ever base your judgment on your first contact with a person. Ladies,  listen. Don't base your judgment on the appearance of a man. Until you are close, it might be difficult to know his person.
   This reminded me of the story of a female friend of mine. The guy she eventually married didn't look like it at first. She even abused him of driving one "Jalopi" car. To make the matter worse,  the guy was a farmer but a commercialised one. This friend of mine was a nurse. How would a nurse go out with a farmer? Lol. A colleague of her, a medical doctor, was also interested in her. She was already falling for this doctor, maybe because of his packaging.  But when she did thorough analysis of both men, she discovered she has been judging the book by its cover.  This farmer has good character; he's  God-fearing & kindhearted. This guy would ask his workers to clear her surroundings when it was full of bushes several times. The other guy (a doctor) would see it and not do anything.  What really made her fall completely for this farmer was the day he went to the market to buy soup ingredients for her by just hearing her complain of no soup. She said, no guy has ever done such a thing for her. That it really got her. She couldn't but say "YES" to this farmer's proposal. They are happily married today. Am I saying Farmers are better than Doctors?  Completely NO. This is not Argumentative essay. No co-debater or opponent here. I hope you get my point.  The reason for this story is not to judge a book by its cover. Do not judge by appearance . Take time to know the person. You don't know if he/she will end up being your spouse. Be sensitive. Always remember that kindness makes a man attractive.
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DO THIS! AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL STAND THE TEST OF TIME.

   May I ask you this question? Who is sitting in the boat of your dating, courtship or marriage? Is it malice?  Is it poverty? Is it hatred? Is it quarrel? Is it devil? Is it Christ? He who sits in the boat of your relationship determines how far your relationship will go.  You can remember how Jesus rebuked the wind that was pouring water into the boat where Jesus and His disciples were. The scripture recorded that our Saviour was sound asleep when the disciples were in turmoil. Out of panic they went to look for the Master who was sleeping so soundly.  The disciples might have asked Him angrily this question...."Master,  carest though that we perish?" The Master rebuked the wind (problem) on their behalf and there was a great calm.
   Assuming our Saviour was not in that boat, what do you think will happen? I guess you know the answer.  By having  Christ in their boat, He covered for their inadequacies and lack of faith. This is what our Saviour will do to your relationship if you allow Him. He's a gentle person. He won't force Himself into your relationship.  He even said in the scripture that "Behold, I stand at the door and knock: if any man hear my voice and open the door, I will sup with him and he with Me".
   Therefore, open the door of your dating, courtship or marriage to the Master. He's the only one that can handle any challenges. Having Him in the boat of your relationship brings  joy, peace, prosperity and love. His presence makes the difference. No matter how unfaithful that marriage might be it's not too late to yield it to the Master. He's the Master of all circumstances. I look forward to hearing your testimony. Love you so much.
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HOW TO MAKE A MAN BEG FOR YOUR LOVE WITHOUT SEX

   Don't give unsolicited advice to men when they seem incompetent in what they are doing. Because men love to be on top of the situation. They feel controlled when you offer such advice. Also,  men love to solve problems on their own.  This they do by going into the cave of "meditation" or "mulling over" the problem or rolling the problem in their minds to find solution. They feel distant by their women. Men just need some time to find solution to their problems, don't be upset women. Don't take it personal.
   Give your man time to think over his problem, he'll appreciate it. Don't seek for attention at this period; be patient. It won't last forever; it's just for a season. He'll soon come out of his cave. The best thing you can do is to trust his judgement on the matter. He makes him feel valued, respected and loved. It's a great error when you start fighting for his attention during this time . Even demanding him to talk to you. Men find find it hard to discuss their problem except when they're seeking for advice. So don't  force him to discuss the issue. He may feel annoyed and controlled. He'll even  feel unloved.
   One of the sweetest things you can do is to say, "Have you been abe to find solution to the problem?"  "I trust your judgment, sweetheart, because you are supersmart". "If you want to discuss it I am available, my love". Look straight into his eyes when saying these. Let him see the passion of love and care in your eyes.  Or move closer and embrace him. Your man will melt in your hands if you can do this.  He'll even be  motivated to discuss the matter.
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SEEKING FOR SOLUTION TO A FRUSTRATING RELATIONSHIP?....... READ THIS.

   There's always a tipping point in a relationship when love turns to hatred. Don't let your relationship reach that stage. It happens when  you don't respect each other's boundaries.  Don't overstep those boundaries in the name of intimacy. Because every one has a self value and respect. You make your man feel masculine when you obey his set boundary. Likewise, your woman feel loved when you respect her values.
   Little things matter a lot in a relationship. As intimacy increases, the effect of little things become more pronounced. As the saying , "a little flour makes the dough rise; and a dead fly in an ointment makes it stink". Take heed to the voice of your partner when  he/she incessantly complains about a particular behaviour of yours.  It means he/she cannot tolerate such behaviour. Turning a deaf ear will only put a strain on the bond of love. This can lead to frustration and unhappiness on the part of your partner and also, to the end of the relationship irrespective of the number of years you've been together. Some people are technically divorce even though they are under the same roof. Stop those behaviours that make both of you cat and dog. Be sensitive and compassionate towards each other.
   Remember, make your man masculine and your woman feminine by respecting each other's boundaries.
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THE POWER OF A WOMAN.......... MEN MUST READ THIS!!!

  The late Thomas A. Edison freely admitted that Mrs Edison was the major source of his inspiration. They held their Master Mind meetings daily, usually at the close of Mr Edison's day's work. And nothing was permitted to interfere with these meetings. Mrs Edison said to that, for she recognised the value of her keen interest in all of Mrs Edison's experimental work.
   Mr Edison often worked late into the night, but his home-coming found his wife awaiting him in keen anticipation of hearing him tell of his successes and failures during the day. She was familiar with every experimental he conducted and took an interest in them.
   She served as a sort of "sounding board" for Mr Edison,  through whom he had the privilege of looking at his work from the sidelines, and it has been said that she often supplied the missing link to many of his unsolved problems.
History attributes the rise to military power of Napoleon Bonaparte to the inspirational influence of his first wife, Josephine. Napoleon's military success began to wane when he allowed his ambition for power to cause him to put Josephine aside, and his defeat and banishment to the lonely island of St. Helen was not far ahead of this act.
   It may not be amiss to mention the fact that many a modern-times business "Napoleon" has met with the same kind of defeat for the same reason. Men often maintain their Master Mind relationships with their wives until they attain power, fame and fortune, then "trade them in for new models",  as Andrew Carnegie expressed it.
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EVERY CHAMPION HAS FELT IT...........DON'T FUCKIN GIVE UP !!!

   Let's quickly look into the curriculum vitae (CV) of the greatest Apostle that ever lived, Paul the Apostle.  This is one of the letters he wrote to the Corinthian Church, he said "Are they mimisters of Christ? (I speak as a fool) I am more; in labours more abundant, in stripes above measure, in prisons more frequent, in deaths often. Of the Jews five times received I forty stripes save one ( 39 stripes for 5 times). Thrice was I beaten with rods, once was I stoned,  thrice I suffered shipwreck. A night and a day I spent adrift on the open sea. I have been on journeys many times, in dangers from rivers, in dangers from robbers, in dangers from my own countrymen, in dangers from Gentiles, in dangers in the city, in dangers in the wilderness, in dangers at sea, in dangers from false brothers, in hard work and toil (to work very hard and for a long time ), through many sleepless nights, in hunger and thirst, many times without food, in cold and without enough clothing.  Apart from other things,  there is daily pressure on me of my anxious concern for all the Churches".

   Hmm!  This a great suffering. Many people would have given up on their assignments if they are faced with quarter of these. Don't ever give up on that God's given assignment. Because it's from God doesn't mean you will be free from tribulations or persecutions. Some even think if it's truly from God all paths should be cleared; everything should be easy. That is INCORRECT. Most of the times, because it's even from God, you will be faced with great oppositions. The devil will oppose it not to come to fruition. He'll throw many things on your way just to frustrate you. 

   Don't give up. Keep on moving.  Why? Because anything he throws on your way is meant to strengthen you. All these things are meant to work together for your good. Remember, the devil threw many things on our Saviour's way while on earth but those things were used by God for his glorification.  This is why the devil and his agents later regretted for crucifying Him. If Joseph's brothers had known, they wouldn't have thrown him into the prison.  If Potiphar's wife had known, she wouldn't have lied against him. If Potiphar had known that this slave boy would later become his boss,  he wouldn't have put him in prison.  But all theset things work together for good for Joseph's glorification. 

   So have the mentality of "all things are working together for my good" throughout this year. This will energise you to keep going. Don't be discouraged. Don't be tired. Do not give up on that dream. DON'T FUCKIN GIVE UP!!!
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