DAVIDO AND HIS BABY MAMMAS

   The wisest king who ever lived in the old testament penned down this powerful word in one of his books ... "Do not arouse love before its time". It offers that there's time love becomes real and comes into existence.  Nobody can force its arrival. Let's quickly use it to draw lessons and instructions from the story of Davido and His baby mammas. You know knowledge can come from anywhere. It can come from circumstances, experience, environment,  nature or happenings of life. This knowledge I'm about to share comes from the latest gist in town --- the delivery of  Chioma of a bouncing a baby boy. I guess you know how Davido went crazy by celebrating his wife and his new boy on social media. Calling her "her strong wife; that he loves her so much" Saying "Omo Oba de" meaning the son of a king has arrived.
   The question is, is this his first child?  You know he has other children from other women before Chioma but he celebrated none like this. This reminds me of the great write up by the King what was named "a man after God's heart". He wrote, "To which angel did God say sit at my right hand until I make your enemy your footstool". But our heavenly Father said this to His beloved Son. Ladies, listen. Hearken to this instruction. Do not ignore this wise saying ---- "if a guy doesn't love you, he won't celebrate you. You had better don't believe the saying that "guys don't love; they are stronghearted". Na lie o.  If a guy like Davido can love and even make it public, any guy can love a lady in million ways.
If you like get pregnant. Even give birth to a child who his his carbon copy. If he doesn't love you , he doesn't love you. There's nothing you can do about that. He will only be giving you money because of his child. The only thing that will be bringing you together is the child. Not intimacy; not love. I know you want more than that. I heard Davido went to see his baby mammas with Chioma.  Maybe officially introducing his wife to them. You know all of them will be full of envy and pain because of the way he's crazy about Chioma.  The truth is, allow a guy to love you. Do not arouse his love before time. Allow him do the chasing. Stop being desperate because he's a celeb or rich guy by looking for ways to get pregnant for him.
Many of these celebrities with different baby mammas didn't plan for it. It might be when they were drunk they had unprotected sex with those ladies. This might the reason they often rejected the pregnancy at first but DNA will  always reveal the truth. Most of the time, they are angered and embittered.  That might be one of the reasons they don't want anything to do with those ladies again.
   Wise up lady. Don't give yourself unnecessary headaches and sorrow.  Don't throw yourself on a guy who doesn't love you. It doesn't worth it. The regret or pain is more than the ecstacy of being with a celebrity or a rich person. You're more valuable than being a side chick or baby mamma. I know poverty is in the land. People are looking for ways to be rich and popular.  But do it in a right way. It may be late but it'll bring great pleasure and joy. Who told you you can't make your own money and be popular like Linda Ikeji.  Look inward and unearth that hidden gift of yours.  Work on it; turn it skill and start using it to make the world a better place. That's how to make your light shine to the world. When the world sees your good work, they will not only glorify God but also bring cash to your doorstep. As our our heavenly Father is glorified , you too will be glorified by fame, riches, honour and beauty. I hope there's a shift in your mentality now. Remember, don't be a side chick or baby mamma but be a woman of strength and virtues; goal-getter and hardworking. Your LOVE COACH.
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HOW TO DATE SMARTER, RATHER THAN HARDER

   If your eye is single your whole body will be full of light. This is one of the parables of our Saviour. There is power in focusing on one thing. There is great power in having one woman. It brings greater blessing than having string of women. It leads to focus in life and destiny. It gives clarity of vision and purpose. As a man, you don't need to love a million women in one way, you just need to love one woman in a million ways.
   Having one woman makes a man to be creative and innovative because of greater peace and joy he enjoys (speaking of having a good woman because some ladies are hell themselves. I am not talking about such ladies). Back to our discussion. Women are wonderful if you know how to do things that give them joy. If you press the right button, your woman can turn a room to a mansion;  she can turn a company to a conglomerate or an empire  - don't underestimate the power of women because you are relating with the most influential beings on earth.
   Be a man of one wife, girlfriend or fiancée. I know what you are thinking - that will be boring, am I right?  If you can heed to this advice , it will save you a lot of headches. This is also applicable to ladies. Some ladies also keep string of boyfriends - be a lady of one man. Understood?  Good.  Men who date many ladies are most of the times poor managers of money.  Most of them are spendthrifts like the prodigal son in the bible.  Such man will want to satisfy all of his women in terms of gifts and money because of this "thing" ..... I guess you know what I mean.
   This kind of man is always unfaithful and liars in order to keep up with his game. He's calculative for fear of being caught. I pity such man. What he will lose will be more than the pleasure of sex he will enjoy. He also finds it hard to marry on time because of pleasure of tasting different girls. Be wise!!! Don't be a victim.
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STOP WASTING YOUR TIME! FIND OUT WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING WRONG IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

   Money and gift are not the same. These look similar to men but women know the difference.  Guy, don't equate money to gift or gift to money. I pray you know the difference. We are quick to be deceived by the money we give to our women thereby ignoring the gift aspect. Be wise. Don't wait till your woman give you trouble before your eyes open. I can relate well with this because I am talking from experience.  I am giving you the wisdom of the ages.
   Also, don't allow over familiarity hinder you from taking your woman out. Even after all the gifts and money, women still want to be taken out. Be smart about this. You might be saying, "Eehen, I do send her money; what does she want again? I can't kill myself o". Oga,  calm down. These three things: gift,  money and going out may look similar to you but ladies know the difference. Listen to your woman when she complains.  Don't be strongheaded.  Then, you will have heaven on earth relationship, peaceful and lovely atmosphere you ever dreamed of.

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A PROVEN AND SIMPLE WAY TO TURN YOUR HOME TO HEAVEN!

 

  A man is a leader and manager of the family. The wife is the co-leader and co-manager.  A man should not leave the mangement of home to his wife. A woman is a help-meet. She is meant to stand in the position of Vice-President helping you in any or your undertaking. As a leader of the home, you must be able to envision the future. What this means is that you must set goals for your marriage - where you want your relationship or family to be in the next few years. This will bring about improvement in your home. 
   Your wife and children should not be left out in realising these set-goals.  You must be able to sell the future to them effectively till they can clearly see it and run together with you in realising it. Don't forget to give roles to your wife and children, that is, the roles each of them will play in achieving the set-goals. You have to know the strengths of each member of your family because the roles must harmonise with their strengths.
   Create a right environment for each member of your family to carryout their tasks. Don't practise autocratic style of leadership; be democratic in your approach. This will enable them to perform their roles effectively. Environment entails  the culture you uphold in your family. Culture of high performance, excellence, persistence and love should be upheld in your home. This is very important . Culture will determine whether they will execute their plans with high performance and love.
Remember, you're a leader. Be seriously involved. Don't be too busy. Your wife and children are looking up to you. If you're unserious in executing the plans, they will also be unmotivated to do anything.  Be wise.
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