ANTHONY JOSHUA.... STAY HUNGRY, STAY HUMBLE

 

   STAY HUNGRY, STAY HUMBLE..... The word of the 2x Heavy Weight Champion of  Boxing, Anthony Joshua who came from defeat to hero. Let's quickly do the analysis of this powerful and profound statement made by him.
What does it mean to stay hungry? It means self-discipline, focus, adequate preparation , never-give-up attitude. It also means discipline in the type of food to eat, when and the number of times to eat in a day. Discipline in doing exercises like jugging, weightlifting, cycling, boxing in the ring etc.
   These painful exercises for body building were done everyday. He wasn't distracted by noises from other boxers who wanted a fight with him but focused on only one fight with Andy Ruiz. He stayed focus for months in spite of shame and humiliation of defeat in New York. He didn't give up but exerted more effort  by preparing adequately. This made him lose 11 pounds. To be a champion is not a joke.
   What does it mean to stay humble? It means humility of heart after victory or defeat. He was so humble to learn from his mistakes and improved on his skills. He was so humble enough not to give excuses but rather worked harder. He was so humble enough to suffer humiliation of going back to the ring for training in order to gain back his victory. He even went for more courses in boxing which made him see boxing as a science.
   When he was asked his #1 fight, he said the one he lost to Andy Ruiz and presented this fight he won as #2. He said the previous fight taught him many lessons he used to win this new fight.  I also love Andy Ruiz. He admitted his faults of gaining more weight and not preparing well. He gave no excuse for losing that he would go back to lose more weight and become more fit for the 3rd fight - he actually called for 3rd fight.
   AJ stayed HUNGRY by losing 11 pounds through discipline and adequate preparation while Ruiz stayed "BELLEFUL" by gaining more pounds through indiscipline.  We can all see the difference in their scores (118 - 110, 119 - 109).
    There are many lessons to learn from this fight like:
- To stay hungry and humble even after victory.
- Not allowing fame and accolades of men enter your head or else you'll nose dive.
- Champions admit their errors and don't give excuses. They would rather go back for adequate preparation and improved on their skills as far as going for more courses.
Don't forget this word...... STAY HUNGRY, STAY HUMBLE.
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IF YOU DON'T WANT TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR LIFE, READ THIS....

  The Holy Book says "To everything there's a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven. A time to get , and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away. A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace". It offers that there is a time to accept a man's proposal and a time to reject it. There's a time to have many male friends and a time to let them go. Some ladies have lost their men because of being ignorant of time. They are not like men of Issachar who knew time and season. A lady in university rejecting men's proposals especially those in 200L upward is ignorant of the time to love. She might reject men's proposals because of the following reasons:
I. Too young for a relationship.
II. Fear of premarital sex.
III. Having the mentality of reaching 400 or 500L before dating or courting.
IV. Church/Fellowship rule (some EXCOS on campus are not allowed to go into relationships until they finish their  tenures).
   These have brought delay in marital destinies of some ladies. Also, some have lost their potential husbands. Many are still not engaged after school. The rule of reaching certain level in university before going into a relationship is baseless. If the right man comes before the pre-determined level, what will the lady do? There are are two answers to the question. She might ask him to wait; she can say NO to his proposal.  Men are not the same, some easily get tired of waiting. Many ladies have delay in marriage or become completely single in life because of these. Some have rushed into marriage when they discovered age is not on their side. This has brought them into erroneous marriages.
   Ladies,  Listen attentively. Don't lose your husband on the basis of these rules. If he's the right man don't delay your "YES". Nobody is too small for a relationship as far as she is in  university.  Ladies who made such mistakes are still regretting.
   The book of Isaiah says "And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, we will eat our own bread and provide our own apparel; only let us be called by your name to take away our reproach of being unmarried". It has started getting to that level in the world. Don't allow this prophecy to be fulfilled in your life. Young ladies, be wise!
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SEDUCTIVE WOMAN? DANGER!!!!

 This is one of the great write ups of the wisest king in the old testament. According to his CV, he had 300 wives and 700 concubines. No one has broken this record. If such a person gIves you advice of the danger of seductive and immoral women, I think you should listen. Let's enjoy the ride together.

   Dear friend, pay close attention to this , my wisdom; listen very closely to the way I see it. Then you'll acquire a taste for good sense; what I tell you will keep you out of trouble. 

The lips of  a seductive woman are oh so sweet, her soft words are oh so smooth. But it won't be long before she's gravel in your mouth, a pain in your gut, a wound in your heart. She's dancing down the primrose path to Death; she's headed straight for Hell and taking you with her. She hasn't a clue about Real Life, about who she is or  where she's going.

   So, my friend , listen closely; don't treat my words casually. Keep your dance from such a woman; absolutely stay out of her neighbourhood. You don't want to squander your wonderful life, to waste your precious life among the hard hearted . Why should you allow strangers to take advantage of you? Why be exploited by those who care nothing for you? You don't want to end your life full of regrets, nothing but sin and bones, saying, "Oh, why didn't I do what they told me? Why did I reject a disciplined life? Why didn't I listen to my mentors, or take my teachers seriously? My life is ruined! I haven't one blessed thing to show for my life!"

   Do you know the saying, "Drink from your own rain barrel, draw water from your own spring-fed well"? It's true. Otherwise,  you may one day come home,  and find your barrel empty and your well polluted. Your spring water is for you and you only,  not to be passed around among strangers. Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose --- don't ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted! Why would you trade enduring intimacies for cheap thrills with a whore?  For dalliance with a promiscuous stranger?

   Mark well that GOD doesn't miss a move you make; he's aware of every step you take. The shadow of your sin will overtake you; you'll find yourself stumbling all over yourself in the dark. Death is the reward of an undisciplined life; your foolish decisions trap you in a dead end.

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DAVIDO AND HIS BABY MAMMAS

   The wisest king who ever lived in the old testament penned down this powerful word in one of his books ... "Do not arouse love before its time". It offers that there's time love becomes real and comes into existence.  Nobody can force its arrival. Let's quickly use it to draw lessons and instructions from the story of Davido and His baby mammas. You know knowledge can come from anywhere. It can come from circumstances, experience, environment,  nature or happenings of life. This knowledge I'm about to share comes from the latest gist in town --- the delivery of  Chioma of a bouncing a baby boy. I guess you know how Davido went crazy by celebrating his wife and his new boy on social media. Calling her "her strong wife; that he loves her so much" Saying "Omo Oba de" meaning the son of a king has arrived.
   The question is, is this his first child?  You know he has other children from other women before Chioma but he celebrated none like this. This reminds me of the great write up by the King what was named "a man after God's heart". He wrote, "To which angel did God say sit at my right hand until I make your enemy your footstool". But our heavenly Father said this to His beloved Son. Ladies, listen. Hearken to this instruction. Do not ignore this wise saying ---- "if a guy doesn't love you, he won't celebrate you. You had better don't believe the saying that "guys don't love; they are stronghearted". Na lie o.  If a guy like Davido can love and even make it public, any guy can love a lady in million ways.
If you like get pregnant. Even give birth to a child who his his carbon copy. If he doesn't love you , he doesn't love you. There's nothing you can do about that. He will only be giving you money because of his child. The only thing that will be bringing you together is the child. Not intimacy; not love. I know you want more than that. I heard Davido went to see his baby mammas with Chioma.  Maybe officially introducing his wife to them. You know all of them will be full of envy and pain because of the way he's crazy about Chioma.  The truth is, allow a guy to love you. Do not arouse his love before time. Allow him do the chasing. Stop being desperate because he's a celeb or rich guy by looking for ways to get pregnant for him.
Many of these celebrities with different baby mammas didn't plan for it. It might be when they were drunk they had unprotected sex with those ladies. This might the reason they often rejected the pregnancy at first but DNA will  always reveal the truth. Most of the time, they are angered and embittered.  That might be one of the reasons they don't want anything to do with those ladies again.
   Wise up lady. Don't give yourself unnecessary headaches and sorrow.  Don't throw yourself on a guy who doesn't love you. It doesn't worth it. The regret or pain is more than the ecstacy of being with a celebrity or a rich person. You're more valuable than being a side chick or baby mamma. I know poverty is in the land. People are looking for ways to be rich and popular.  But do it in a right way. It may be late but it'll bring great pleasure and joy. Who told you you can't make your own money and be popular like Linda Ikeji.  Look inward and unearth that hidden gift of yours.  Work on it; turn it skill and start using it to make the world a better place. That's how to make your light shine to the world. When the world sees your good work, they will not only glorify God but also bring cash to your doorstep. As our our heavenly Father is glorified , you too will be glorified by fame, riches, honour and beauty. I hope there's a shift in your mentality now. Remember, don't be a side chick or baby mamma but be a woman of strength and virtues; goal-getter and hardworking. Your LOVE COACH.
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HOW TO DATE SMARTER, RATHER THAN HARDER

   If your eye is single your whole body will be full of light. This is one of the parables of our Saviour. There is power in focusing on one thing. There is great power in having one woman. It brings greater blessing than having string of women. It leads to focus in life and destiny. It gives clarity of vision and purpose. As a man, you don't need to love a million women in one way, you just need to love one woman in a million ways.
   Having one woman makes a man to be creative and innovative because of greater peace and joy he enjoys (speaking of having a good woman because some ladies are hell themselves. I am not talking about such ladies). Back to our discussion. Women are wonderful if you know how to do things that give them joy. If you press the right button, your woman can turn a room to a mansion;  she can turn a company to a conglomerate or an empire  - don't underestimate the power of women because you are relating with the most influential beings on earth.
   Be a man of one wife, girlfriend or fiancée. I know what you are thinking - that will be boring, am I right?  If you can heed to this advice , it will save you a lot of headches. This is also applicable to ladies. Some ladies also keep string of boyfriends - be a lady of one man. Understood?  Good.  Men who date many ladies are most of the times poor managers of money.  Most of them are spendthrifts like the prodigal son in the bible.  Such man will want to satisfy all of his women in terms of gifts and money because of this "thing" ..... I guess you know what I mean.
   This kind of man is always unfaithful and liars in order to keep up with his game. He's calculative for fear of being caught. I pity such man. What he will lose will be more than the pleasure of sex he will enjoy. He also finds it hard to marry on time because of pleasure of tasting different girls. Be wise!!! Don't be a victim.
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STOP WASTING YOUR TIME! FIND OUT WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING WRONG IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

   Money and gift are not the same. These look similar to men but women know the difference.  Guy, don't equate money to gift or gift to money. I pray you know the difference. We are quick to be deceived by the money we give to our women thereby ignoring the gift aspect. Be wise. Don't wait till your woman give you trouble before your eyes open. I can relate well with this because I am talking from experience.  I am giving you the wisdom of the ages.
   Also, don't allow over familiarity hinder you from taking your woman out. Even after all the gifts and money, women still want to be taken out. Be smart about this. You might be saying, "Eehen, I do send her money; what does she want again? I can't kill myself o". Oga,  calm down. These three things: gift,  money and going out may look similar to you but ladies know the difference. Listen to your woman when she complains.  Don't be strongheaded.  Then, you will have heaven on earth relationship, peaceful and lovely atmosphere you ever dreamed of.

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A PROVEN AND SIMPLE WAY TO TURN YOUR HOME TO HEAVEN!

 

  A man is a leader and manager of the family. The wife is the co-leader and co-manager.  A man should not leave the mangement of home to his wife. A woman is a help-meet. She is meant to stand in the position of Vice-President helping you in any or your undertaking. As a leader of the home, you must be able to envision the future. What this means is that you must set goals for your marriage - where you want your relationship or family to be in the next few years. This will bring about improvement in your home. 
   Your wife and children should not be left out in realising these set-goals.  You must be able to sell the future to them effectively till they can clearly see it and run together with you in realising it. Don't forget to give roles to your wife and children, that is, the roles each of them will play in achieving the set-goals. You have to know the strengths of each member of your family because the roles must harmonise with their strengths.
   Create a right environment for each member of your family to carryout their tasks. Don't practise autocratic style of leadership; be democratic in your approach. This will enable them to perform their roles effectively. Environment entails  the culture you uphold in your family. Culture of high performance, excellence, persistence and love should be upheld in your home. This is very important . Culture will determine whether they will execute their plans with high performance and love.
Remember, you're a leader. Be seriously involved. Don't be too busy. Your wife and children are looking up to you. If you're unserious in executing the plans, they will also be unmotivated to do anything.  Be wise.
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