A man is a leader and manager of the family. The wife is the co-leader and co-manager. A man should not leave the mangement of home to his wife. A woman is a help-meet. She is meant to stand in the position of Vice-President helping you in any or your undertaking. As a leader of the home, you must be able to envision the future. What this means is that you must set goals for your marriage - where you want your relationship or family to be in the next few years. This will bring about improvement in your home.
Your wife and children should not be left out in realising these set-goals. You must be able to sell the future to them effectively till they can clearly see it and run together with you in realising it. Don't forget to give roles to your wife and children, that is, the roles each of them will play in achieving the set-goals. You have to know the strengths of each member of your family because the roles must harmonise with their strengths.
Create a right environment for each member of your family to carryout their tasks. Don't practise autocratic style of leadership; be democratic in your approach. This will enable them to perform their roles effectively. Environment entails the culture you uphold in your family. Culture of high performance, excellence, persistence and love should be upheld in your home. This is very important . Culture will determine whether they will execute their plans with high performance and love.
Remember, you're a leader. Be seriously involved. Don't be too busy. Your wife and children are looking up to you. If you're unserious in executing the plans, they will also be unmotivated to do anything. Be wise.
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On point, share the your vision with the family, not just you.
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