The UGLY TRUTH About Dating, Courtship & Marriage

 The UGLY TRUTH About Dating, Courtship & Marriage

I learnt this UGLY TRUTH while reading one of the posts of Leke Alder….the No.1 brand consultant in Nigeria….

And the brainbox behind jacknjillive.com……a relationship blog (You can google him or visit https://jacknjillive.com). You will be awed by the kind of wisdom that saturates every piece of his writing.

This article is an excerpt from one of his posts….

“My dear Jack, there is such a thing as sad truth and you’ve stepped into one. We step into sad truth when we ignore wisdom. Then when calamity comes, wisdom sticks out her tongue. I did warn you not to go into marriage without a job, a source of livelihood or income.  Now you see why. You allowed yourself to be railroaded into an unrealistic Snow White timetable based on a self-serving editorialized Bible text. Yes, God said you shouldn’t worry about a thing, but he wasn’t encouraging foolishness or joblessness. When you talk wisdom to a young man and he counters with religious techno-babble, you let him be. Life will teach him. It’s amazing how people fail to see practical truths in Holy writ. Yet the Bible is full of practical teachings. The Bible is totally against the idea of a man not working. How can it support the idea of going into marriage with no? didn’t Apostle Paul say he that does not work should not eat, so what “favour” chimera are you talking about? And Apostle Paul went further to state that the man who wouldn’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel!

You and your then girlfriend now wife convinced yourselves it’s an excuse of faith to go into marriage without livelihood. I did ask you how exactly you intend to take care of your family without a job or income………….”

 You can see from this post that….

money is an important factor in a relationship……

whether dating, courtship or marriage.

I will leave you to your opinion….but to me, I don’t completely blame the poor guy that was rebuked here. He might have married out of old age or frustration of not getting a good job. Disappointments here and there from employers…

Maybe he’s tired of doing 15k per month job….

You know what……

There’s great poverty in this country…..

And this is gravely affecting dating or courtship…even marriages.

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Can we really blame the poor girl that got married to this guy?

Age might not be on her side also…

And maybe the relationship has started since the day of Lord Lugard..

Who knows.

They married out of faith which is termed as foolishness

But  let’s be realistic here…

How will they be coping after wedding?

A big question…???

Because manna will not fall from heaven

That only happened in the days of Moses in the wilderness

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That man or woman you genuinely love

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I pray your case will not be like the above couple

PPS: You can get the full article of the above excerpt  from https://jacknjillive.com/2017/03/money/

 Gbenga Dada

YourLoveCoach