When a woman is upset, overwhelmed, confused, exhausted, or hopeless what she needs most is companionship. She needs to feel she's not alone. She needs to feel loved and cherished. Empathy, understanding, validation and compassion go a long way in assisting her to becoming more receptive and appreciative of your support as a man. Men don't realise this, because their instincts tell them to be alone when they are upset. When she is upset, out of respect, he leaves her alone and if he stays he makes matter worse by trying to solve her problems. He doesn't instinctively realise how important closeness, intimacy, and sharing are to her. What she needs most is someone to listen to her frustrations and pains.
Men, pay attention to this secret: women are soft-hearted to their lovers no matter the level of misunderstanding. Don't mind whatever she says in annoyance, she is only crying for intimacy, empathy and understanding. She's crying for more love from you. Reach out to her during this period. Don't be annoyed by her hurtful/abusive words. Rather, embrace and kiss her. Affirm your love for her. Be patient enough to see beyond her words. Treat her like a baby crying for food. Ladies feel more loved and appreciated when they are not left alone in their pains.
Don't be discouraged by her hurtful words. It's just a means of relieving herself of pains. Be more understanding. If you do this, you'll continously win her heart. Your relationship will skyrocket to the next level of intimacy, love and companion. There'll be openness, sincerity and honesty. You will be among the 1% with heaven on earth relationship. I hope you will take to this advice.
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