“MAN DID NOT COME FROM WOMAN…..” YOU WANT TO KNOW WHY? READ THIS…

“MAN DID NOT COME FROM WOMAN…..”

YOU WANT TO KNOW WHY?

READ THIS…

When I was reading my bible….It’s good to study the Holy Book

This write up of the great Apostle really blessed me….

I urgently need to share it

Let’s quickly go through the pages of scriptures….You might be thinking….”Are we in church?” Lol. We are not. Be patient to read through…it will bless your life

Want to know the bible version I am using? Okay….I am using NET…..I will leave you to get the full meaning of that if you don’t know it……Just love this translation because of simplicity and easy reading

Enough of beating about bush….

Let’s dive into it

“For man did not come from woman, but woman from man..(1 Cor.1:8)”. This great writer of the new testament got this from Gen. 2:21-22…….”So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep, and while he was asleep, he took part of the man’s side and close up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made woman from the part he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to man.”

So the next verse of 1 Corinthian we read, says ….Neither was man created for the sake of woman, but woman for man …that is…..woman was created for the sake of man

Feminists need to know this and gain understanding

Don’t have anything against them; just don’t like the way they have misled many women. Hope you’re not one of them? Lol. I love all Feminists. Enough of that…Gbenga. Back to our discussion. The meaning of the word “sake” can be found in Gen. 2:18…..

The LORD said , “It’s not good for the man to be alone. I will make a companion  for him who corresponds to him.” Let’s quickly look up the meaning of “companion” and “correspond” in Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary.

We’ve three words that are used in relation to person…….

1.      A person or an animal that travels with you or spends a lot of time with you

2.    A person who has similar tastes, interests, etc. to your own and whose company you enjoy

3.    A person who shares in your work, pleasures, sadness etc.

Companionship means “the pleasant feeling that you have when you are in friendly relationship with somebody and are not alone.” I think this definition brings out the true meaning of “companion”

A companion is someone who you are in FRIENDLY relationship with and who kills your loneliness….

This definition is in agreement with God’s statement “It’s not good for the man to be ALONE”

What’s the function of a woman to a man? I think you know the answer now…..For companionship and to kill man’s loneliness. It offers that if a woman can do this, she has her man forever. It will be very hard for such a man to be unfaithful.

Women, listen. Hearken to this instruction…..open your heart to this word of understanding….

Don’t ever leave your man lonely

I know you’re asking how to keep the company of a man and kill his loneliness…

Look forward to my next post.

Stay loved

Gbenga(LoveCoach)

Have you heard……?? “THE SECRET OF UNTHINKABLE GREATNESS HIDDEN IN TRIBULATION”

Have you heard……??

“THE SECRET OF UNTHINKABLE GREATNESS

                                     HIDDEN IN TRIBULATION”

Let’s look into the Curriculum Vitae (CV) of the greatest Apostle that ever lived….Paul the Apostle.

ARE YOU READY?

This is part of the letters he wrote to the Corinthian Church, he said…..

“Are they minister of Christ? (I speak as a fool)…I am more;

In labours more abundant ,

In stripes above measure,

In prisons more frequent,

In deaths oft……

Of the Jews  five times received I forty stripes save one (39 stripes for 5 times)….

Thrice was I beaten with rods,

Once was I stoned,

Thrice I suffered shipwreck…

A night and a day I spent adrift in the open sea…

I have been on journeys many times,

In dangers from rivers,

In dangers from robbers,

In dangers from my own country men,

In dangers from Gentiles,

In dangers in the city,

In dangers in the wilderness,

In dangers at sea,

In dangers from false brothers,

In hard work and toil (working very hard for a long time)....

Through many sleepless nights,

In hunger and thirst,

Many times without food,

In cold and without enough clothing….

Apart from other things,

There is the daily pressure on me of my anxious concern for all the churches.”

HMMM!!!

This is a great suffering…many would have given up on their assignments….

If they’re faced with quarter of these things

DON’T EVER GIVE UP  GIVE UP ON THE

ASSIGNMENT GOD HAS GIVEN YOU

Because it’s from God it doesn’t mean you won’t face tribulations or great sufferings

Some even think if the assignment is truly from God…..

All paths should be cleared, everything should be easy

THAT IS NOT CORRECT!!!

It’s a big NO….Most of the times

Because it’s from God, you will be faced with great oppositions

The devil will not want it to come to fruition…He’ll throw many things on your way…

Just to frustrate you

DON’T FUCKIN GIVE UP

Keep on moving…Why?

Because anything he throws on your way is meant to strengthen you

Al these things are meant to work together for your good….

Like our savior Jesus Christ…..the devil threw many things on His way

All these things including His death were used for His glorification

The devil and his cohorts later regretted of crucifying Christ

If Joseph’s brother had known, they woudn’t have sold him

If Potiphar’s wife had known…she wouldn’t have lied against Joseph

If Potiphar himself had known this slave boy would later become his boss….

He wouldn’t have put him inside prison

But all these things worked together for his enthronement

So, have the mentality of……..

“ALL THINGS WORKING TOGETHER FOR MY GOOD”

…And you’ll be energized to keep going

Don’t be discouraged

Don’t be tired

DO NOT GIVE UP ON THAT DREAM

Don’t fuckin give up!

© Gbenga Dada

YourLoveCoach.

"NOT EVERYTHING THAT IS LAWFUL IS BENEFICIAL"

As I was studying my bible one day, this quote from the greatest Apostle who ever lived jumped out of the page of the scripture (It’s good to study the holy book, if you don’t you are missing a lot). It says, “Everything is lawful, but not everything is beneficial. Everything is lawful, but not everything builds others up”. But I will say….”but not everything builds you up”.

Getting drunk with alcohol maybe lawful but is not beneficial to your health --- could lead to diabetes, liver/kidney disease. Having many girlfriends or boyfriends maybe lawful but is not beneficial to your mental state (lack of focus, unwanted pregnancy), financial state (spending like a prodigal son to impress others), health (HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, complications or death as a result of abortion). Telling lies can be lawful but is not beneficial to your integrity. This can tarnish your image among people. Getting a divorce maybe lawful but is not beneficial to your mental state (depression, sorrow, regret, bitterness, hatred), children and health .

Smoking maybe lawful but is not beneficial to your health (damaged lung), mental state (thinking irrationally). Watching movies or chatting from morning till evening maybe lawful but is not beneficial to your destiny. Wearing sexy dresses that reveal your breasts and other private parts of your body maybe lawful and fashionable but is not beneficial to your dignity as a virtuous woman. The list is endless. Think of whatever you are doing that’s lawful but is not beneficial and stop doing it. That thing maybe popular but could be dangerous to your life and destiny. So before doing anything, ask yourself a question “Is it beneficial? Will it add value to me and others?”

#YourLoveCoach.

"THIS PARTICULAR ACT WILL DESTROY YOU"

I still don’t understand why some guys still expect ladies to be patient and understanding while they are cheating with other girls. Can a guy be understanding if his babe is cheating on him? According to relationship experts, marriage is 10% sex and 90% communication. Any guy with many girlfriends has turned this formula around to his own detriment. Having many sexual partners is pure foolish and illusion. Such a guy can never be focused in life. He will be a great waster and destroyer of public barter of exchange called “EEGO”. He’s blinded, not knowing all vaginas are the same. God didn’t make some more golden and honey than the others. Guys, use your head. Think!!!

You may be asking why I am passionately writing about this. It’s because I’m angry with the stupid acts of some men which are now gradually accepted as norms in our society. We must speak against this evil. Because as God created men so He made women. Men are superior to women only in marriage but apart from that, they have equal rights. Even married men are not left out in this game of unfaithfulness. Some don’t even allow single ladies to rest. This is highly lugubrious… a state of dismal pismal.

Single ladies, stop using your vagina to make money, start using your head. Stop being a side chick to married men in the name of money. Don’t forget that the love of money is the root of all evil which many covet and have caused themselves with many sorrows. I pray you will have a change of heart instead of sorrow in Jesus name. Thanks.

#YourLoveCoach.