It's high level of foolishness to compare ourselves to others. Comparing your spouse or loved ones with others is high level of madness; because, every one is unique. Even our Creator never compares us with others. In His sight, we are all unique; He does relate to each person as if he/she is the only one existing.
Comparison is one of the major causes of problems in relationships in homes, marriages, datings, courtships and friendships. People comparing themselves or someone with others do forgot the grass always looks greener on the other side. In the Holy Book, the APOSTLE who wrote two-third of the new testaments made a profound statement that " ...But they, measuring themselves by themselves and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise," because we're all created differently.
Psychologists classified us into different temperaments; we have the choleric, the sanguine, the phlegmatic and the melancholic. Cholerics are ambitious, drivers and goal-getters. Sanguines are hilarious and social. Phlegmatics are easy-going, highly patient and do take their time to do something while the melancholics are naturally deep and analytical thinkers and researchers. People can have the four in them but one is always dominant. For instance, we can have someone who is 50% choleric, 30% sanguine, 15% phlegmatic and 5% melancholic. This person will act differently from someone who has the percentages differently.
Even our heavenly Father doesn't want us to be the same because of boredom and frustration. He prefers difference and creativity. So, never compare yourself, spouse, fiance, girlfriend or boyfriend with others; we are all unique. But this does not ignore the area of improvement on our parts. If you see any virtue you like in another person, you can pray to God and work towards possessing it. So, never compare yourself with others; we're all uniquely and wonderfully made by God. #LOVE COACH. #I-teach-write-research-counsel. #Relationship-betterment. #Love-impactor.
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