THE POWER OF A "WIFEY" (3)

   Love, like a beautiful picture, requires the embellishment of an appropriate frame and proper lighting. It requires cultivation and food, just as does the physical body. Love does not thrive on indifference, nagging, fault-finding or domineering by either party. Love thrives best where a man and his wife feed it through singleness of purpose.
The husband has the responsibility of earning the living, but the wife may have the responsibility of softening the shocks and the resistances which he will meet in connection with his occupation - a responsibility which the wife can discharge by planning a pleasant home-life, through whatever social activities may be fitting to her husband's calling.
   The wife should see to it that home is the one place where her husband may lay aside his business or occupational cares and enjoy the ecstasies which only the love and affection and understanding of a wife can provide. The wife who follows this policy will be as wise as the sages, and richer in ways that count more than most Queens.
   I would also caution a wife against allowing her maternal instinct to supplant her love for her husband, by transferring all of her love and affection to her children. This mistake has wrecked many homes, and it  might well wreck any home if the wife neglects to guard against the error so many wives make of switching their love from their husbands to their children.
   A woman's love, if it be the right kind of love, is sufficient in abundance to serve both the children and her husband; and it is a happy wife who sees to it that her love is sufficient to serve her husband and children generously, without unfair preference in favour of other.
   Where love abounds as the basis of family Master Mind relationship, the family finances will not be likely to give cause for disturbance, for love has a way of surmounting all obstacles, meeting all problems and overcoming all difficulties.
   Family problems may arise, and they do in every family, but love should be the master of them. Keep the light of love shining brightly and everything else shape itself to the pattern of your most lofty desires.
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THE POWER OF A "WIFEY" (2)

   The wife can coax her husband to do many things! The wife should take a keen interest in her husband's occupation. She should become familiar with every feature of it, and never overlook an opportunity to express a keen interest in every thing that concerns the source from which he earns his livelihood. And above all, she should not be one of those wives who say to their husbands,  by inference if not by words, 'You bring house, the money and I will spend it,  but don't bother me with the details as to how you earn it, for I am not interested in that.'
   If a wife takes that attitude, the time will come when her husband will not be interested in how much money he brings home. I think the wives who are wise, understand what I mean.
   When a woman marries she becomes the majority stakeholder in the firm. The wife who is wise will manage the firm's business by a carefully prepared budget, taking care not to spend more than the income will allow. Many marriages hit the rocks because the firm runs out of money. And it is no mere axiom to say that when poverty knocks on the front door love takes to its heel and runs through the backdoor. Watch out for Part 3.
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THE POWER OF A "WIFEY" (1)

   The wife has more influence over husband than any other person. That is, she has this superior influence if she has made the most of her relationship to her husband. He chose her in marriage in preference to all other women of his acquaintance, which means she has his love and confidence.
Love heads the list of the nine basic motives of life which inspire all voluntary actions of people. Through the  emotion of love the wife may send her husband to his daily labour in a spirit which knows no such reality as failure. But remember that 'nagging', jealousy, fault-finding and indifference do not feed  the emotion of love. They kill it.
   Every meal hour should be a period of friendly intercourse between the wife and her husband. They should not be converted into periods of inquisition and fault-finding, but rather should be converted into periods of family worship, during which there will be good cheer, and discussion of pleasant subjects of mutual interest to the husband and wife.
   More family relationships are wrecked at the family meal hour than any other time,  for this is the hour which many families devote to settling their family differences of opinion, to disciplining the children. Look forward to Part 2.
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WHAT TO DO WHILE WAITING FOR THAT RIGHT MAN

   The best thing to do is to have a definite purpose and set plans to achieve it. This will engage your mind thereby saving you from depression of being single.  Be full of faith that your man will locate you. Don't be despaired of your situation no matter your age or what you did in the past. Be optimistic and full of life.
   Boost your knowledge and understanding by reading books, attending seminars and workshops.  Adequately prepare yourself for your man. Keep building good character and do away with unprofitable ones. Following the wise quote of Abraham Lincoln which says, "I will study and prepare myself and some day my chance will come." Your chance of getting married will come. The question is, if the right man comes, what character will you put up to keep him?  Don't forget that your beauty can attract a man but it takes your character to keep him.
   Go to gathering where men can see you. Avoid triangular life (work, church and home). Attend programs, go for jogging, go to the gym, go to cinema, picnic etc. I will advice you to leave a church where there are many married, teenagers or children but very few youths. Church is a great social gathering where you can easily meet your life partner. Attend a youth church, that is, church with more youths than elders.
   Lastly, be spiritual. Use your waiting period to build your spritual life by listening to messages,  studying your bible and praying. Be faithful in attending church programs especially Sunday service and Bible Study. Very soon, your God ordained man will find you.
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ANTHONY JOSHUA.... STAY HUNGRY, STAY HUMBLE

 

   STAY HUNGRY, STAY HUMBLE..... The word of the 2x Heavy Weight Champion of  Boxing, Anthony Joshua who came from defeat to hero. Let's quickly do the analysis of this powerful and profound statement made by him.
What does it mean to stay hungry? It means self-discipline, focus, adequate preparation , never-give-up attitude. It also means discipline in the type of food to eat, when and the number of times to eat in a day. Discipline in doing exercises like jugging, weightlifting, cycling, boxing in the ring etc.
   These painful exercises for body building were done everyday. He wasn't distracted by noises from other boxers who wanted a fight with him but focused on only one fight with Andy Ruiz. He stayed focus for months in spite of shame and humiliation of defeat in New York. He didn't give up but exerted more effort  by preparing adequately. This made him lose 11 pounds. To be a champion is not a joke.
   What does it mean to stay humble? It means humility of heart after victory or defeat. He was so humble to learn from his mistakes and improved on his skills. He was so humble enough not to give excuses but rather worked harder. He was so humble enough to suffer humiliation of going back to the ring for training in order to gain back his victory. He even went for more courses in boxing which made him see boxing as a science.
   When he was asked his #1 fight, he said the one he lost to Andy Ruiz and presented this fight he won as #2. He said the previous fight taught him many lessons he used to win this new fight.  I also love Andy Ruiz. He admitted his faults of gaining more weight and not preparing well. He gave no excuse for losing that he would go back to lose more weight and become more fit for the 3rd fight - he actually called for 3rd fight.
   AJ stayed HUNGRY by losing 11 pounds through discipline and adequate preparation while Ruiz stayed "BELLEFUL" by gaining more pounds through indiscipline.  We can all see the difference in their scores (118 - 110, 119 - 109).
    There are many lessons to learn from this fight like:
- To stay hungry and humble even after victory.
- Not allowing fame and accolades of men enter your head or else you'll nose dive.
- Champions admit their errors and don't give excuses. They would rather go back for adequate preparation and improved on their skills as far as going for more courses.
Don't forget this word...... STAY HUNGRY, STAY HUMBLE.
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IF YOU DON'T WANT TO REMAIN SINGLE FOR LIFE, READ THIS....

  The Holy Book says "To everything there's a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven. A time to get , and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away. A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace". It offers that there is a time to accept a man's proposal and a time to reject it. There's a time to have many male friends and a time to let them go. Some ladies have lost their men because of being ignorant of time. They are not like men of Issachar who knew time and season. A lady in university rejecting men's proposals especially those in 200L upward is ignorant of the time to love. She might reject men's proposals because of the following reasons:
I. Too young for a relationship.
II. Fear of premarital sex.
III. Having the mentality of reaching 400 or 500L before dating or courting.
IV. Church/Fellowship rule (some EXCOS on campus are not allowed to go into relationships until they finish their  tenures).
   These have brought delay in marital destinies of some ladies. Also, some have lost their potential husbands. Many are still not engaged after school. The rule of reaching certain level in university before going into a relationship is baseless. If the right man comes before the pre-determined level, what will the lady do? There are are two answers to the question. She might ask him to wait; she can say NO to his proposal.  Men are not the same, some easily get tired of waiting. Many ladies have delay in marriage or become completely single in life because of these. Some have rushed into marriage when they discovered age is not on their side. This has brought them into erroneous marriages.
   Ladies,  Listen attentively. Don't lose your husband on the basis of these rules. If he's the right man don't delay your "YES". Nobody is too small for a relationship as far as she is in  university.  Ladies who made such mistakes are still regretting.
   The book of Isaiah says "And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, we will eat our own bread and provide our own apparel; only let us be called by your name to take away our reproach of being unmarried". It has started getting to that level in the world. Don't allow this prophecy to be fulfilled in your life. Young ladies, be wise!
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SEDUCTIVE WOMAN? DANGER!!!!

 This is one of the great write ups of the wisest king in the old testament. According to his CV, he had 300 wives and 700 concubines. No one has broken this record. If such a person gIves you advice of the danger of seductive and immoral women, I think you should listen. Let's enjoy the ride together.

   Dear friend, pay close attention to this , my wisdom; listen very closely to the way I see it. Then you'll acquire a taste for good sense; what I tell you will keep you out of trouble. 

The lips of  a seductive woman are oh so sweet, her soft words are oh so smooth. But it won't be long before she's gravel in your mouth, a pain in your gut, a wound in your heart. She's dancing down the primrose path to Death; she's headed straight for Hell and taking you with her. She hasn't a clue about Real Life, about who she is or  where she's going.

   So, my friend , listen closely; don't treat my words casually. Keep your dance from such a woman; absolutely stay out of her neighbourhood. You don't want to squander your wonderful life, to waste your precious life among the hard hearted . Why should you allow strangers to take advantage of you? Why be exploited by those who care nothing for you? You don't want to end your life full of regrets, nothing but sin and bones, saying, "Oh, why didn't I do what they told me? Why did I reject a disciplined life? Why didn't I listen to my mentors, or take my teachers seriously? My life is ruined! I haven't one blessed thing to show for my life!"

   Do you know the saying, "Drink from your own rain barrel, draw water from your own spring-fed well"? It's true. Otherwise,  you may one day come home,  and find your barrel empty and your well polluted. Your spring water is for you and you only,  not to be passed around among strangers. Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose --- don't ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted! Why would you trade enduring intimacies for cheap thrills with a whore?  For dalliance with a promiscuous stranger?

   Mark well that GOD doesn't miss a move you make; he's aware of every step you take. The shadow of your sin will overtake you; you'll find yourself stumbling all over yourself in the dark. Death is the reward of an undisciplined life; your foolish decisions trap you in a dead end.

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