The Holy Book says, "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones. The right words are better than gifts of money and all earthly gifts. Kind words cheer people up; and bring out the best in them.
In your relationship especially marriage use kind and helpful words. Wife, don't use harsh or abusive words on your husband. Husband, don't threaten or curse your wife. Words can cause war and can also bring peace into a relationship. Wrong usage of words has scattered many homes and relationships. A husband or wife can fall sick because of harsh/abusive words of their partner. As word can bring sweetness to the soul, it can also bring sorrow and pain. Many people have bitterness in their hearts because of bad words of their partners or loved ones. Some people have vowed not to forgive others because of the degree of pain their words caused them.
Be skillful in the usage of your words especially in your relationship. When you've misunderstanding, learn to still use kind words. Kind words can turn away wrath quickly and even put an end to quarrel. Briddle your tongue when you're angry. Don't open your mouth like tap water and start raining abuses or curses on your partner. Don't say words you'll later regret. Words can lift up and can also bring down. Don't destroy your spouse or children by your words. Some children's futures have been destroyed by the words of their parents especially their mothers. Cultivate the habit of speaking helpful words to your children no matter what they do. There're different kind of health challenges bad words can cause. For example, mental sickness (dull child), financial sickness (poverty), physical sickness (sickness in the body like frequent fever, pain or headache), loss of self-esteem (lacking self-confidence to take hold of the future) etc.
Since words come from our heart, they reveal who we are. We can't hide our true nature, our words will betray us. Remember, you can't speak rightly until you're filled with right words. Therefore, fill your heart with right and helpful words like God's words and other motivational words; for out of that abundance you'll speak words that heal, lift up, encourage, bless and comfort others.
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God bless you boss, words are like broken Eggs after spoken. It can never be unsaid. This is really helpful Bro, more grease to your elbow.
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