Don't focus on what is lacking in your relationship (whether in dating, courtship or marriage) because what you focus on expands and multiplies. Be like Christ who was faced with the challenge of feeding multitudes of 5 000 men excluding children and women. If we're to do the rough estimate of the multitudes, they will be approximately 25, 000 people assuming women population was twice of men, and each of them came with at least a child.
Jesus focused on what they had left ( 5 loaves and 2 fishes ) but the disciples focused on what they didn't have. By giving thanks on these loaves and fishes, about 25, 000 people were fed with 12 baskets full of fragments left.
Focus on the good part of your relationship especially marriage and give thanks. You'll see favour, peace and progress. But if a relationship is so toxic to you that it's negatively affecting your emotions, health or spiritual life, don't hesitate to leave such a relationship if you see no changes after applying aforementioned principles. Remember, bless your relationship often, do not curse.
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